Inking happens to everyone

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Bromance?

While searching around today, a funny word caught my eye. "Bromance"
Urban Dictionary states "Describes the complicated love and affection shared by two straight males."
I googled the word to find more information and located this site: http://thebromance.com/ I'm not sure what I think about this site, if its just funny and witty, or just disturbing..they are mostly a recorded show, but Check it out, Im sure you'll give me some input.

Now, Women have "girlfriends" and while we are Very close, and have love and affection for one another, it is definately a sisterly act. There is no Femance. We speak pretty freely of our feelings for one another, and that usually sounds like this " I am so glad we are friends and I love you". its an I love you that you would say to your sister, or mother..

My purpose here is to bring to light an interesting view.
A man would never say, this is my boyfriend, Carl. Unless he and Carl were gay. A man generally does not have a specific identification other than "friend".. This is my Friend Carl. Most men would not use any other specific identification because of the fear or concern someone would read the relationship in the wrong way. It is also a way for Men to lay down important ground rules, such as Friend implies I like you, I enjoy your company but smack me on my ass or spontaneously hug or kiss me and Ill kick you in the neck. I dont normally see men say to each other, " i love you", "I care about you" or "I respect and cherish our relationship" So i have to assume it is because the ground rules were laid out, you are friends and there is no need to communicate the deepness or appreciation of each other further as it should be implied since you are friends. I understand the majority of this is because Men are not comfortable expressing these feelings out loud, let alone to another Man. Then WHY? Why would the Male population create a word to describe their relationship with another STRAIGHT Male that is completely and suggestively emotional, as well as latterally connected to a word that implies love on a level other than friendship? Was Bro not enough? or my good friend? my Best Man?

Just curious as to where the Bromance started.

Thursday, March 27, 2008

what would you do?

if you were standing at a busy intersection in the city(kinda windy).. waiting for the crosswalk sign to say its ok to go..while waiting you reach into your McDonalds bag for a fry and out pop all the napkins..which then proceed to dance across the street, each taking a different route. What would you do? do you just let them go? do you scramble across the street picking up the ones you can catch while dodging vehicles? do you look at the person next to you like it was their fault? remember.. everyone is out and about.. they're all watching you... what do you do?

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Liar Liar, Pants on fire!

Reading about Hilarys latest embelishment is a little sickening. She wants everyone to say.. "OH MY!".. "She's so Brave to have endured that! she's so in touch with foreign diplomacy! What a courageous woman!"

My thoughts?

She's exactly like the annoying guy/girl we all know.. the one that tells stories that get broader and more dangerous with each telling.. they want the attention and adoration that comes with great acts of bravery. when in reality, she has no experiences that put her on that level, except maybe having sex with Bill after Monica had been with him.. you never know what kind of dangers lurk there!

Stating she "mispoke" is a flat out lie. her people try to say, well, she's been so many places and has had so many experiences.. its hard to remember...
OK.. then go ahead and tell me which experience she IS remembering where she was ordered to run to her car while enduring sniper fighting? She's very specific in her details.. so if not the Bosnia trip.. then which trip was it that this actually happened? you cant really remember details unless they happened at some point.

Hmmmm....Cant remember? probably because, it never happened. In Hilarys mind, she got confused of what stories she's told people that were completely made up to boost her self esteem..versus the truth, then she spit it out in front of ALOT of people that are way too knowledgeable to believe her little tale of woes, with the power to research and actually find the truth.

Hilary Hilary.. didnt your momma teach you not to lie??

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/23789011/

Thursday, January 17, 2008

cookies!




I always wondered where Oreo's come from..
(but for real, these cows really look like this.. they are called Belted Galloways aka the Oreo Cow)

interesting site

good satire and all out funny videos

http://www.mydamnchannel.com/channel.aspx?episode=110

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

If the song fits

While roaming around today, I found this song.. I think.. Sometimes.. this song really fits with whats going on in life... Please .. do yourself a favor and play it loud.. learn the lyrics.. and sing away! it will make you feel better

http://www.pud.com/2007/12/greatest-and-best-song-ever-written.html

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Brain matter

Sometimes, the Gerbil annoys the shit out of me. the wheel just keeps going round and round. The noise of it all is tiring. he knows the squeaking bothers you..which makes him just keep on it.. he's watching for your reaction and when you react, he smiles inside and remembers just what he was doing to piss you off...so he can do it again.

damn gerbil.